The kingdom of heaven invading earth is like a faithful wife who cooperates and helps her husband with a full heart. With open teaching and with outright acts she declares and displays her loyalty and cooperation to all who are watching. With love she openly teaches loyalty and cooperation with her husband. And with bold acts she displays her loyalty and cooperation to all who watch.
The kingdom of heaven is not at all like a wife who gives her husband veiled kisses, (empty kisses with other motives… like Judas.) while reluctantly following. Not with passive aggressive working behind the scenes to get her way while pretending to follow his lead when she thinks he watches.