Boundaries Around Leading Others

To be a great leader does not necessarily mean we are great servants of God.

Knowing when, where, and how to apply leadership skills is far more important than being ABLE to lead others. In Jesus Christ there are boundaries about where and what we can lead others. There are no blank checks to do with God’s people what we want. God’s people are not to be seen as our piggy banks or our experimental sheep.

Great leaders know how to deal with people, loyal followers can be easy to control and even abuse. But they also know hot do deal with their opponents, which usually usually a combination of ignoring them (when they are right) and shredding them in debate, (from a stage) when they are wrong.

The Jesus-follower who is led of the spirit is not a constant and forever leader of other Jesus followers, he or she applies his leadership always and only where the spirit leads him to. His leadership is subject and surrendered to the Holy Spirit. His leadership is not free for his personal use and ambition.

This attitude is very common today. Never raise your kids to have the attitude that THEY are the leader. Most pastors kids are examples of this. Dad trains them from a young age to expect to leader (which is really to dominate) other Christians. To sift your friends to find those who will be subject to your leadership, to drive away those who will not yield. They hit their mid-20’s and need income they think “Maybe dad was right … and I do have to be the leader”.

Sometimes… it’s the dominating ego (that their parents carefully trained them to have) kicks in and they “take a church.”

It is abusive (to the body of Christ as a whole) to teach young Christians that, and to teach older Christians to expect that of certain Christian families.

Instead teach them first and foremost how to be led of the Holy Spirit. Then teach them secondarily how to lead, but only subject to and yielded to the spirit.

Just because a crowd of Christians expects to be led, and wants a great human leader and is offering “tithes”, and you are able to lead, and need an income, does not mean you have permission from the Lord to become what we call a modern day pastor. We are not led by logic and fleecing. We are to be led by the Holy Spirit, not by mom and dad.

“Look What I Did”

When leaders do a census of their organization or ministry it’s often in self defense. To undermine their opponents or detractors. To point to their accomplishments and say “see, I am doing a good job, don’t listen to those critics.” Or “look, there is fruit from my way of doing things, so stay loyal”

And this is fine for many leaders (CEOs, -governments, when it’s a strictly human-led organization) but this is not ok for the church. It’s not how it is in the kingdom of Jesus Christ.

The organizations of God are unique and in scripture God saw census-taking as a sign that a leader is taking personal credit for what he is doing. Leaders see it as self-defense but God sees it as evidence that a leader sees himself in the role only fit for the Lord.

The best tactic for a disciple of Jesus being criticized is not to defend himself. But to let God do that, and if he doesn’t then so be it, let it drop. Be criticized.

Whoever Tries the Hardest

“Until You Do It…I’m The Boss”

Alexandra Ocasio Cortez is a very young woman recently elected to the House of Representatives in NYC.

She has received criticism for her green new deal legislation.

Don’t worry this post is not a political hit. It is not about her Green New Deal.

This post is an observation about leadership that AOC is displaying and succeeding with. And an attempt to compare the leadership we see in government and many corporations and even in many churches, with that of our Lord Jesus Christ and his disciples. I have come to believe that leadership, void of the leading of Christ, can be summarized by a phrase. That phrase is “whoever tries the hardest, is in charge.” This is true particularly for young people trying to break into leadership ranks. 

Listen to this quote from congresswoman AOC from an interview. This was in response to criticism she has received from her Green New Deal legislation.

“I’m at least trying and they (older democrats) are not, so the power is in the person who is trying, regardless of the success, if you are trying you’ve got all the power you’re driving the agenda…it’s creating all of this conversation, no one else has even tried, critics “it’s unrealistic, it’s big, it doesn’t address this thing,” I’m like you try, you do it, cause you’re not, so until you do it, I’m the boss, how about that?” – Alexandra Ocasio Cortez

I’m the one trying the hardest so I’m in charge. This is the mantra of the modern day leader. This is a Go Getter who has ambitions for government. This is the worldly person seeking power over others. Of course, I am simplifying, it is more complex than this. There are other factors in leadership, like the ability to communicate, the willingness to be criticized and to not quit. 

Whoever Tries the Hardest

But all things being equal, AOC’s comment is a perfect description of the requirements for human leadership. You want to lead, you want to dominate others, you want to be “in charge”?

Then do like AOC does, try HARD, do something, get things done. Act first, be a go-getter, be the first to move and get advantage.

Interviewer: “In your ability to galvanize your supporters through social media, you have been compared to Donald Trump.”

“Well, I think that there’s this rush to make that comparison, but any time media fundamentally changes, the first movers to recognize that change — and to learn it and to adapt to it — tend to have that first-move advantage. So this is less about personality, less about Trump, and more about who has had the first-mover advantage. But there are similarities. People who succeed in social media follow similar tenets. In order to resonate with people, you have to tell them what you mean, you have to be willing to make mistakes, you have to be willing to be vulnerable and learn as you go.” – Alexandria Ocasio Cortez

Let’s compare this try the hardest first move advantage to the leadership of Jesus Christ and his disciples.

He and his followers waited quietly and meekly, until they knew the time was right.

They were careful to not jump ahead and do their own thing. Jesus repeatedly taught and displayed the concept of doing nothing except what he saw his heavenly father doing. He also taught his disciples “without me you can do nothing.”

The behaviors rewarded and prerequisite for leadership outside of Christ is the polar opposite to those inside Christ and his kingdom.

Leadership within Christ and his kingdom is needed and rare but it is nothing like what we see in our governments and businesses.

The Warning

The real church is the body of Christ on earth, those following Jesus Christ.

Churches which gravitate toward this go-getter style of leadership are not living by the life of Jesus Christ. They are living by the life of fallen humanity which is beholden to evil powers and principalities. This should be received as a warning to Christians.

Go-Getter leaders like AOC and Donald Trump should not dominate within the body of Christ. If and when they do it is a red-flag about a community of believers.

At worst it’s idolatry, bored with Jesus they prefer another king, another Lord, a visible leader like themselves.

At best they are deeply confused between the kingdom of Jesus Christ and the kingdoms of the world.

Jesus Christ, alive and well is the only Go-Getter we will ever need.

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